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20 things you MUST Stop doing in Year 2012.

As part of personal development and developing a Positive mindset for the year 2012, there are some things probably in your life that you may want to correct. Though you may not have known them before, but by reading the below articles may serve as a mirror to correcting them and turning a new live. Do you believe in the Law of Attraction


1. Stop spending time with the wrong people. – Life is too short to spend time with
people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make
room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. Never, ever insist yourself to someone
who continuously overlooks your worth. And remember, it’s not the people that stand
by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand
beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2. Stop running from your problems. – Face them head on. No, it won’t be easy. There is no person in the  world capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly solve problems. That’s not how we’re made. In fact, we’re made to get upset, sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve them over the course of time. This is what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3. Stop lying to yourself. – You
can lie to anyone else in the
world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances, and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves. Read The Road Less Traveled .

4. Stop putting your own needs on the back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself
in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help
yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters
to you, that moment is now.
 5. Stop trying to be someone you’re not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is
being yourself in a world that’s trying to make you like everyone else. Someone will
always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone will always be
younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and
the right people will love the real you.

6. Stop trying to hold onto the
past. – You can’t start the next
chapter of your life if you keep
re-reading your last one.

7. Stop being scared to make a
mistake. – Doing something
and getting it wrong is at least
ten times more productive than
doing nothing. Every success
has a trail of failures behind it,
and every failure is leading
towards success. You end up
regretting the things you did
NOT do far more than the
things you did.

8. Stop berating yourself for old
mistakes. – We may love the
wrong person and cry about
the wrong things, but no
matter how things go wrong,
one thing is for sure, mistakes
help us find the person and
things that are right for us. We
all make mistakes, have
struggles, and even regret
things in our past. But you are
not your mistakes, you are not
your struggles, and you are
here NOW with the power to
shape your day and your
future. Every single thing that
has ever happened in your life
is preparing you for a moment
that is yet to come.

9. Stop trying to buy happiness. –
Many of the things we desire
are expensive. But the truth is,
the things that really satisfy us
are totally free – love, laughter
and working on our passions.

10. Stop exclusively looking to
others for happiness. – If
you’re not happy with who you
are on the inside, you won’t be
happy in a long-term
relationship with anyone else
either. You have to create
stability in your own life first
before you can share it with
someone else. Read Stumbling
on Happiness .

11. Stop being idle. – Don’t think
too much or you’ll create a
problem that wasn’t even there
in the first place. Evaluate
situations and take decisive
action. You cannot change
what you refuse to confront.
Making progress involves risk.
Period! You can’t make it to
second base with your foot on
first.

12. Stop thinking you’re not ready.
– Nobody ever feels 100%
ready when an opportunity
arises. Because most great
opportunities in life force us to
grow beyond our comfort
zones, which means we won’t
feel totally comfortable at first.

13. Stop getting involved in
relationships for the wrong
reasons. – Relationships must
be chosen wisely. It’s better to
be alone than to be in bad
company. There’s no need to
rush. If something is meant to
be, it will happen – in the right
time, with the right person, and
for the best reason. Fall in love
when you’re ready, not when
you’re lonely.

14. Stop rejecting new
relationships just because old
ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll
realize that there is a purpose
for everyone you meet. Some
will test you, some will use you
and some will teach you. But
most importantly, some will
bring out the best in you.

15. Stop trying to compete against
everyone else. – Don’t worry
about what others doing better
than you. Concentrate on
beating your own records
every day. Success is a battle
between YOU and YOURSELF
only.

16. Stop being jealous of others. –
Jealousy is the art of counting
someone else’s blessings
instead of your own. Ask
yourself this: “What’s
something I have that
everyone wants?”

17. Stop complaining and feeling
sorry for yourself. – Life’s
curveballs are thrown for a
reason – to shift your path in a
direction that is meant for you.
You may not see or understand
everything the moment it
happens, and it may be tough.
But reflect back on those
negative curveballs thrown at
you in the past. You’ll often see
that eventually they led you to
a better place, person, state of
mind, or situation. So smile! Let
everyone know that today you
are a lot stronger than you
were yesterday, and you will
be.

18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t
live your life with hate in your
heart. You will end up hurting
yourself more than the people
you hate. Forgiveness is not
saying, “What you did to me is
okay.” It is saying, “I’m not
going to let what you did to me
ruin my happiness forever.”
Forgiveness is the answer… let
go, find peace, liberate
yourself! And remember,
forgiveness is not just for other
people, it’s for you too. If you
must, forgive yourself, move
on and try to do better next
time.

19. Stop letting others bring you
down to their level. – Refuse to
lower your standards to
accommodate those who
refuse to raise theirs.

20. Stop wasting time explaining
yourself to others. – Your
friends don’t need it and your
enemies won’t believe it
anyway. Just do what you know
in your heart is right.

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